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Improve your sex life!
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Getting hard – harder?
According to Spanish guys, it might be problematic. Even though some say that they are the best lovers, a survey on physorg.org shows that 83 percent of Spanish men are not satisfied with their erections and they would like to "get harder" in order to achieve better sex life. Spain is followed by Turkey where the situation is similar – 80 percent of men in this country don't feel comfortable with their erections. Do women notice their partner's lack of sexual confidence? They sure do! Every third woman questioned says that she thinks her partner would like to experience harder erections in order to improve their sex life.
Does this hold true for all European men? Of course not! In Belgium you have a fifty-fifty chance of meeting a lover who is happy about his erection. Germans are the most satisfied ones – only 40 percent would like to experience harder erections.
The reason for erection difficulties is often not physical. Psychologists say that sexual confidence is the main key to men's self-confidence. Men who are not satisfied with their sexual life are usually suffering some syndromes of depression and low self-esteem. Maybe it’s time for the Spaniards to give their title "lover of the year" to the Germans and work hard on their self confidence in order to get satisfyingly hard again. Here some tips for you, guys:
| 1st Tip: |
Sometimes you can blame it on someone else – maybe the partner is not exactly the best match? Think about your relationship and talk to your other half! Believe us; these days, women are happy to talk about what happens in bed and so should you be… |
| 2nd Tip: |
Stress and negative emotions do not really have aphrodisiacal effects either. The solution can be simple – relax and go with the flow. |
| 3rd Tip: |
Don't judge yourself too harshly! Now you know that probably every second men you meet shares your problem! |
